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Dancing Distracted(ly)

Early in our marriage my husband and I decided to take dance lessons (two-step, etc.)  at a local well-know dance hall near where we lived in College Station, TX.  It was pretty much a disaster and we did not complete the entire series.  I could not remember or at least execute the steps either at the necessary speed or with the proper rhythm and consistency.  He had his own difficulties and we disagreed over leading.  I said he needed to be a “strong lead” and he said I needed to stop leading.  Ultimately, dancing has not been a satisfying experience during our marriage and we almost never do.

Well, when you have a marriage with one partner with ADHD the other partner has a lot to deal with.  When you do not know that one partner has ADHD then it can often add stressors to a good marriage.  The non-ADHD partner may be the one… Continue reading

Ten Evaluation Criteria For Successfully Selecting A Life Partner

The author is fully qualified to expound verbosely on this subject.  She conducted extensive research using the methodology and protocols established for the  smart women who make bad choices in men Graduate Program of Matrimonial Disaster. This program includes testing marriage with one or more unsuitable partners who fail to adhere to one or more of the established protocols.

The author also traveled half way around the world to find a spouse who meets all the criteria AND participated in a civil ceremony performed by a duly elected United States territorial official followed in less than ninety days by a religious rite officiated by one male and one female ordained minister in a state of the United States.  Finally, the author received full endorsement from the final approval authority, the then seven-year-old daughter who also performed the duties of  Maid-of-Honor.

Based on this rigorous research the author attests to the validity… Continue reading

ADHD Brains Are Different

nimh brain scan

Right image shows less neuron activity in ADHD brain compared to non-ADHD brain. Click picture for article and larger photo.

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